I was looking around on fuckyeahazngirls.tumblr.com for good samples of "sexy posing".
Going to do a little self-shoot on Adam's request.

While browsing on FYAG, I stumbled upon this video of a girl poledancing.
It was one of the most beautiful and graceful thing I had ever seen......
She's dancing so gracefully, alone by herself.

It seems very lonely, but at the same time it is beautiful because of that.
It's a form of dance, an art! It's not trashy AT all.
Like what dirdybirdy says, "Pole dancing is not stripping and stripping is not pole dancing!"

I really do dislike people who just completely judge on the surface level of things.

I really want to go check out the S Factor classes!!
I'm going to try out the intro class and see whether or not I like it.
I'm sure I'd like it though.

I think this class will really help me out with my confidence and help me come out of my shell of being self-conscious of people watching what I do and criticizing me for looking weird or trying too hard.

I don't know why I care so much about what people view of me. I have this irrational fear of looking like I'm trying too hard.  It's embarrassing. Maybe it's because I look down on people who look like they're trying too hard.  Perhaps I need to STOP caring and STOP judging people.

Perhaps then, I will become more psychologically free.

OKAY DAN TAM. NEW SELF-IMPROVEMENT PROJECT FOR YOU:

STOP JUDGING PEOPLE.
DON'T LOOK DOWN ON PEOPLE WHEN THEY LOOK LIKE THEY'RE TRYING TOO HARD.

It's not bad to WANT to look like you're good at something or try and put effort into something you want to achieve.  It's NOT BAD AT ALL.  Just do it, and fuck whoever looks at you sideways. Just fuck it!! Why should you care anyway?  Are you trying to impress them? Why do they matter?  It's not like you're going to see them again.  All the people that you respect and love won't ever judge you, and those are the people that matter.  So fuck it all and JUST DO IT!!

Concentrate on what you're trying to do and don't bother even looking around to see if anyone else is there to scrutinize your actions.

You might look like a total tard at first but WHO DOESN'T when they first dip their feet into something new? IT'S OKAY.

WE ALL HAVE TO START SOMEWHERE AND WE ALL LOOK LIKE A RETARD STARTING AT THAT SOMEWHERE.  BUT WE WILL PROGRESS AND EVOLVE INTO SOMETHING LESS RETARDED AND MORE BEAUTIFUL.

PERSERVERANCE IS BEAUTIFUL!